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an hour to buy a set of bangles for me.
Besides being very friendly people, Farouk and Rajni were especially
excited that I was interested in
dressing more like an Indian. Lots of local people complimented
me for dressing in salwar-kameez, and not all of them were trying
to solicit me. They were simply pleased that I had taken an interest
in their culture.
Farouk and Rajni were adamant that I should
have the proper accessories with my saree. The silk did not live
up to its
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potential without the right jewelry and
shoes. If I was going to spend Rs. 3000 on a saree, I should look
like it. It can be difficult to guess an American’s income
from their style of dress. In India, it’s very easy.
The only things left undecorated in India
are the slums. Fruit-sellers in open stalls spend time arranging
their fruit in appealing patterns and bicycle rickshaw drivers paint
what little surface they have. Even the cobbler in Connaught Circle
in Delhi had neatly lined up shoes and tools on his mat on the sidewalk.
This is why the corrugated tin and cardboard slum dwellings present
such contrast. There is nothing to color, nothing to arrange.
What I have seen only just skims the gigantic array of new sights
in India. As much as I feel I’ve learned from observing things,
I could go back my whole life and still feel that my eyes were inadequate.
I will never know what India looks like to people who have spent
their lives there. When I see a man with the ends of his mustache
turned up, it does not signify his caste to me. Economic class differences
were visible, but the caste system remained invisible. I read about
it in the newspaper, and I saw people with caste marks on their
foreheads, but the effects of the system on people’s
 
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